I recently had a conversation with a young guy. Twenty years old. He said they will choose Christmas again. Guaranteed.
Because twenty-year-olds adore him. Because Christmas is an idol for them. Someone who is lazy, someone who didn't study, only with ımmel-amm, still became someone who doesn't even speak languages, and lam-lam: mayor. Proof that it is possible, not only with work, perseverance, and diligence.
Anyone who casually goes against the willful, rule-making power and yet nothing is done about it.
So Christmas is stronger and smarter.
He says that Gyurcsány is also deified because, like them, he doesn't follow the rules because he drinks, and that's cool!
Because these people are not so rigid as to tell them what to do, to study and to work. Or keeping the room clean and not throwing away the trash. Go to bed on time.
Chaos is cool today. The lack of rules.
Young people want this freedom, so that they don't have to take responsibility for anything, so that they can experience everything in their own rhythms, because if someone else forces them to have another rhythm, value system, or work, they are a dictator.
If the parent demands, then the parent is the dictator, if the teacher, then the teacher is the dictator, if the politicians in power, then they are the dictators. Everyone who sets rules is a dictator.
This young man said that all his friends living in Budapest think like this.
All.
I felt that he is slowly no longer daring to form an opinion on these topics, because he does not want to exclude himself from the circle of his age group.
I felt that the conversation was very uncomfortable for him.
Something has gone terribly wrong here. Terribly.
Sick, lazy, aggressive and incompetent children and adults have become the shapers of opinions and values of our time.
Gréta Thumbergek and Lilik Pankotai scream out of themselves in the face of competent, smart, senior people and the world tolerates it silently. In fact...
Our language clichés have a very strong attitude-forming effect.
When I was a child, I heard the following misconceptions from adults:
"Learn so you don't have to work."
I think a lot of us have heard this cliché. Then we realized that we also have to work with learning.
For today's children, the tap is also that
– be your own boss (so don't let anyone else over you);
– live in the moment (you don't have to worry about the future);
- be free, don't be a robot, don't be a slave (so whoever works is not free, he is a robot, he is a slave);
– realize yourself, you can be anything, you just have to want it (perhaps this is the scariest belief trap, because it conveys that you don't have to work for anything, you just have to want it).
There will be huge disappointments and huge frustration.
And these young people, I have no doubt, are capable of setting the world on fire in their anger, because they haven't worked for it.
Well, now I really miss the few authoritarian educational elements that Vekerdi's liberals exterminated with fire and iron.
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