Order has disappeared from our lives, from almost every part of life. And everyone is responsible for this, who should demand the observance of order, capital order in their own area. Written by Katalin Kondor.
Once again, a child became the victim of a school massacre at a school in Finland, and two others were seriously injured when their friend shot at them. All the victims and the shooter are 12 years old - one of them was . Not so long ago, the Scandinavian countries were countries of liberalism, tolerance, and security - at least that's how we thought of them.
Then, due to migrant immigration, the social order somehow began to break down, but for a long time we could not imagine that one day children would shoot in schools.
Then came the painful truth, back in 2007 and a year later, there were two deadly school shootings, one with six student victims, the other with nine.
We were not told what was the cause of the carnage, but we were told that the gun laws were tightened. Apparently not with much result.
Finland is not the only place where this kind of thing happens, we have to admit that similar cases have increased in the world. Many people here also remember when a student attacked his peers or perhaps even his teacher with a knife in a high school in Győr a few years ago.
I am well aware, as everyone knows, that there are and will be unique cases, since deranged minds are capable of anything, moreover, potential murderers can draw a lot of ideas from our everyday reality and the mass of stupid action movies to carry out their crazy ideas.
I still can't find it, let's find the real reason, the explanation for these acts of violence. What has gone permanently wrong in this world? Who messed it up and why?
I have an answer, but I don't think everyone will accept it, even though I'm only sharing one element of it now.
Because I think, even obsessively, that order has disappeared from our lives, from almost every part of life.
In all caps, ORDER. And everyone is responsible for this, who should demand the observance of order, capital order in their own area. From the government to the school, but even to families. You can write and reflect on this phenomenon, many of us do, unfortunately, apparently without any results.
Order is not a requirement. Maybe I'm wrong, but it wasn't so long ago that the authorities started thinking about curbing Hadházyk, Tímeák Szabó, and all the riotous yelling, flailing, spray-blowing rioters.
For a while, it seemed like it was possible to disrupt the parliament as well.
Did it occur to the fathers-in-law and mothers-in-law who were presenting the ribillions that this kind of behavior by adults is setting a very bad example for the young? They should have remembered even on the occasion of these disruptive attempts. Also, did the parents at home and the teachers at school talk enough about the fact that actions that do not suit the place, occasion, or person are unacceptable and deserve punishment?
I do not know. On the other hand, cases that have become public prove that America has moved to Europe. Or we Europeans have reached American standards. In the stabbing, the petty, murderous acts.
The perpetrator of the previous stabbing in Győr was allegedly a good student. It is likely that the parents and the school have since done everything possible to prevent this from happening again. Nothing happens without a reason. Maybe there will be an answer to the reason for the case in Finland at some point.
In any case, I took out my article published at the time of the Győr incident, in which I quoted the impressively knowledgeable clinical psychologist, university professor, dr. Emőke Bagdy's statement, which was also published in the newspapers of the time. I am quoting him, who was not familiar with the specific case, but indicated, among other things, that "young people today struggle with a lot of frustration. The expectations for them are enormous, both at school and in life, but we also took away from the teachers the disciplinary rights they could use to keep order."
That's the short quote from him, it wouldn't hurt to discuss his claims.
Long live pseudo-liberalism!
He didn't say that, I say it - and in mockery. It is clearer than day that deviant behavior will slowly become the pattern, even the basis, instead of normal. And in this, parental responsibility is huge.
Requiring order is also a parent's task.
We cannot know what this time in Finland has shaped what he thinks about the twelve-year-old shooting killer. All we know is that in the Nordic country, someone can get a permit to carry a weapon from the age of 18. But anyone over the age of 15 can apply for a permit to use another person's gun. Sounds nothing to hold it tight! – that's about how much this Finnish law is worth. But only if we want to put it delicately.
