Why has sexual aberration suddenly become so common? Who is dissatisfied with what and why, that he commits himself to such an act? What is the reason for the spread of aggression? Written by Katalin Kondor.
I have a teacher who is there even when he hasn't been around for quite a few years. I mean, between us, because he died. Her name is Mária Szepes, luckily anyone can get access to all of her works and judge whether or not they stimulate our thinking about the world, including people, nature. Even if someone is still interested in those people whose thinking, even though they are no longer with us physically, can have an influence on anyone's life, if you get to know their views.
Of course, there are and have been many great thinkers besides Mary. Especially if we establish the fact, the regrettable fact, that neither the thinkers who lived with us recently, nor those who lived many centuries earlier than us, "today", are not really present in the shaping of our life and thinking.
In English: we forgot about them, we hardly quote them, even though wisdom and brilliant thinking do not depend on age, but on personality.
Many people believe - at least my experience shows this - that in the past, in past centuries, people were much less wise than they are today.
I don't think so at all. Moreover, there are people who lived long ago who gifted us, living today, with so many spiritual treasures that we are committing a sin in terms of thinking worthy of a human being if we do not preserve and revive their spiritual legacy.
They will not believe why the thoughts described above occurred to me. Well, in my outrage that it's all about sexual aberration around this time.
Pedophilia, child molestation, the treatment of these in one way or another, or even the legalization of toleration, so we are scratching our heads as to where we got involved and where to turn for help.
And there is no clue, because even a legitimate punishment cannot necessarily be a solution.
So what to do? I wish I knew! But I guess, and I think, in this regard, it doesn't hurt to take the wisdom of many centuries - or millennia - into account. The ones that today's man eliminated from his life a long time ago. Fortunately, of course, there are still guardians on the road who, on the one hand, have preserved the wisdom of the past and the memory of the wise, and are trying to warn that today's arrogant age, which proclaims that it knows almost everything, is not telling the truth.
We should dig much deeper in the spiritual fruits of the world, and in discovering the causes of many harmful phenomena and diseases in order to be wiser.
Here, for example, the subject of sexual aberration can be said to be a new origin. The aforementioned Mária Szepes, who was also familiar with Tibetan healing methods, also taught that health is a matter of balance, and disease occurs when diet, lifestyle, state of mind or other circumstances disrupt this balance.
Well, if someone thinks about the current state of our existence in the world, in Europe, around this time, he is surely blind if he does not see that our state of mind, that certain balance, has been disturbed.
So health is not a personal thing, but a universal matter for which we are all responsible. Here, where we live, it is not fashionable to think about the teachings of Buddha and other Eastern thinkers. For example, what the Buddha believed was that meditation on illness, especially our own, encourages compassion and provides an opportunity for healing and wholeness.
I don't want to introduce Eastern teachings even for a minute, since anyone can easily access these sources. My goal is only one, to somehow draw attention to the fact that the surface is chattering and the deep is silent. The answer to why is not to be found on the surface - in the depths.
Why has sexual aberration suddenly become so common? Who is dissatisfied with what and why, that he commits himself to such an act? What is the reason for the spread of aggression? Researching this would be the most important thing.
And surely the Buddhist approach could help a lot in this. Unfortunately, however, we do not hear about research in this direction. Are there or aren't there? We do not know.
All kinds of diseases break our lives, and that is indeed sad.
At the same time, it is also an incentive - as it should be - to research, look for the reasons, and find them. And let's not just scratch the surface of the sexual affairs that have been thrown at us recently. Because there is still a lot to be done, with the help of science, we can discover diseases that spoil our lives and whose nature and destructive nature we cannot "deal with" for the time being.
Nowadays, even for a long time, charity campaigns are started for people suffering from certain diseases. Not so long ago, for example, the care of premature babies should be helped. Nice and noble intention.
But there is a little bit of "bitch". A couple of decades ago, I worked for a year in the premature birth ward at the clinic in Debrecen. The air-conditioned rooms and incubators were available, the little ones developed wonderfully, wonderful doctors and nurses worked there, the mothers could visit them, and it was heartwarming when they could finally take their babies home.
When people were recently asked to donate to the premature birth wards as part of a charity campaign, I remembered my "adventure" as an assistant nurse in Debrecen in the late 1960s.
Even today, I think about what we talked about many times with the many excellent nurses and doctors. The care, treatment and babysitting of premature babies was carried out flawlessly, and is still carried out today. But even today, the question remains: shouldn't a lot of energy and money be spent on why there are - supposedly more and more - premature births and the above-mentioned sexual aberration? An answer to this should be found and given.
Only the discovery of the causes can bring about the real cure.
The past few years suggest that it would do no harm to rethink the Western views on health, diseases and healing. Even by widely introducing the art of Tibetan healing.
