Apor Vilmos College held a scientific conference entitled "Helping infertile couples and the possibilities of prevention". The purpose of the Anna-Joachim program is to provide couples struggling with infertility with comprehensive and intensive professional help that harmonizes with church teaching in order to be blessed with a child and to prepare for the vocation of adoptive parents.
The experience of the first three years of the program showed that reproductive disorders, including difficult conception, is a topic in which the knowledge gathered in research groups and institutions of various scientific fields should be shared with each other, and the experiences of professionals working in practice (psychologists and mental health workers) should be added to it.
At the conference, Father Kálmán Nyéky emphasized that adopting means giving someone a family. And it is an act by which a man and a woman become mediators of God's love.
Through the driving force of God, he also says that even if your mother forgets, I will never forget you.
Judit F. Szigeti recalled the period when we still knew that thought was all-powerful in terms of the blessing of children. This idea is based on the psychoanalytic traditions of the 1940s and '50s.
At first, in all other approaches, and later only in the case of idiopathic, that is, medically unexplained infertility, researchers thought that it could be traced back to spiritual reasons. For example, for fears and ambivalence. These thinkers believed that infertility can be a kind of defense mechanism for those who have mental problems with motherhood, he emphasized.
Csilla Dulácska has been dealing with the topic of fertility for more than 15 years. She prepares girls and their mothers for their first period, as well as gives engaged and newly married couples a fertility-conscious conception and regulation guide, and teaches cycle monitoring to women struggling with infertility.
According to Miklós Sipos, the spirit with which a woman approaches childbearing is very important.
We definitely see a scene in patients and couples burdened with infertility, disappointment, loss, or even the perhaps final, dreaded vision of never having children, never becoming a complete family. Infertility in itself can cause frustration, anger, shame, loss of control, self-esteem disorder, or even an identity crisis, he emphasized.
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